11 Wardrobe Must-Haves!

Let’s be real style pimps, buying loads of clothing, shoes, and accessories on a regular basis is freakin’ expensive!  Once you get a chance to buy one trend, another one is already out which makes it hard to keep up *insert tired face here*!  Don’t trip, I’m here to alleviate as much fashion stress as possible. 

Listed below are 11 wardrobe must-haves that I believe will have your closet set for decades.  By having these fashion staples you will be ready for almost any event, and you will be able to continually build your wardrobe around these core items.  With that being written…...let’s get our wardrobes in check!

1.       Leather or Patent Leather Pumps – If you don’t have any other shoe, get you some neutral colored pumps!  These shoes will go with just about anything, and they are timeless!  (Pictured below, PROTO Steve Madden Pumps) 

PROTO Steve Madden Pumps

2.      A Quality Purse – It’s fun to buy little dainty purses here and there for different occasions but investing in a sturdy, leather handbag is smart.  This bag will ride with you forever and if it happens to break, a shoe or leather shop can quickly get it back right. (Pictured below, Reversible Vegan Leather Tote Bag)

Reversible Vegan Leather Tote Bag

3.      A Good Pair of Jeans – Most of us have those favorite pair of jeans that fit us just right and bring all the boys to the yard.  If you don’t, what are you doing??? Find those perfect jeans and rock them as often as you like!  I personally like Urban Oufitters' BDG jeans because they are quality and have just the right amount of stretch.  When looking for jeans, make sure it has at least 2-3 % spandex for comfort and stretch.  (Pictured below, BDG Twig High-Rise Skinny Jeans) 

BDG Twig High-Rise Skinny Jeans

4.      Blazer – A nice fitting blazer (any color) is a major staple for your closet.  You can wear a blazer with so many different looks (work, play, church, etc.), and it’s a piece that will never go out of style. (Pictured below, HM Blazer)  

HM Blazer

5.      LBD – Every woman should have at least one “little black dress” in her closet.  Throw this on for a date or outing with your friends, pair it with your pumps and maybe your blazer, and you are good to go! (Pictured below, Scoop Neck Bodycon Dress)

Scoop Neck Bodycon Dress

6.      Stylish Flats – Ladies, our feet can definitely use a break at times.  Stylish flats allow your feet to rest while keeping you fashionable at the same time.  (Pictured below, WHITNEE Steve Madden Flats)

WHITNEE Steve Madden Flats

7.      Tennis Shoes – Purchase at least one pair of fly tennis shoes for sporty outfits and for activities that call for lots of walking/exercising or traveling. (Pictured below, Adidas Original Superstar Sneaker)  

Adidas Original Superstar Sneaker

8.      A Dressy Watch – Watches add a little pizazz to your outfits.  A dressy watch will not only help you keep up with the time, but it will also add some flair to your look.  (Pictured below, ASOS Minimal Mesh Large Face Watch)

ASOS Minimal Mesh Large Face Watch

9.      Blue Jean Jacket/Bomber Jacket/Trench Coat – Personally I think you need all three, but depending on what climate you are in, at least one of these jackets will suit you.  Neither will ever go out of style, and they allow you to be warm in the most chic way. (Pictured below, Bomber Jacket, Blue Jean Jacket, Trench Coat)

Bomber Jacket, Trench Coat, Blue Jean Jacket

10.  White Blouse – A boyfriend blouse or a tailored blouse can be worn with EVERYTHING!!!!!!! (Pictured below, ASOS Oversized Boyfriend White Shirt)

ASOS Oversized Boyfriend White Shirt

11.  Pencil Skirt/Trousers – The pencil skirt or trousers can be worn to church or work with your white blouse or to an evening event with a crop top.  (Pictured below, HM Pencil Skirt, ASOS Wide Leg Pleat Pants)

HM Pencil Skirt, ASOS Wide Leg Pleat Pants

So there you have it, 11 things that can provide you with the blueprint for a fabulous wardrobe.  At least 6 outfits can be created from the list above.  After accumulating some of these staples, you are well on your way to style success!   

- Samjah Iman

NonConformist

You all remember my girl Priscilla, right?  She was the bike I found at an antique shop for $60. She has been in plastic surgery for a couple of weeks getting worked on by my father, and now she's out.  Check out her new look below.   

Non Conformist Tee - Chokolat Creme

My daddy did his thing on Prissy!

I've been riding her like crazy!  When the weather doesn't permit a bike ride, I actually have an attitude lol. 

Non Conformist Tee - Chokolat Creme

In this blog post I'm wearing my NonConformist Tee from Chokolat Creme, some Adidas high-top tennis (old), and some jeans that I cut to make shorts.  My NC Tee is perfect for the summer months because it's a light material, and it's sleeveless.  The meaning behind this shirt is stay true to your convictions, and don't conform to societal views or perceptions.  Wearing this shirt is my way of honoring the life of one of the biggest nonconformist I know - Muhammad Ali.  Rest easy Champ!  

Click here to purchase your NonConformist Tee.   

Have a productive week everyone!  I'll be talking to you soon on here. XO!

"I am the greatest, I said that even before I knew I was." - Muhammad Ali

- Samjah Iman

Birkenstock Sandals + Adidas Tights

Urban Renewal Recycled Camo tee , Adidas Tights, Birkenstock sandals

Urban Renewal Recycled Camo tee , Adidas Tights, Birkenstock sandals

Urban Renewal Recycled Camo tee , Adidas Tights, Birkenstock sandals

Urban Renewal Recycled Camo tee, Adidas Tights, Birkenstock sandals

Urban Renewal Recycled Camo tee , Adidas Tights, Birkenstock sandals

It's the weekend so kick back and dress comfortable!  I love wearing stylish fashion that is low maintenance (especially on the weekends), and my Adidas Tights fit right into the low-maintenance fashion category.  They are thick enough to cover your goods, yet light enough to wear during the summer months with just the right amount of stretch.  I paired my tights with two other low-maintenance fashion staples - the Birkenstock Sandals from my wish list (yup, I got them!), and my new favorite Urban Renewal Recycled Camo tee from Urban Outfitters.  Expect to see this t-shirt often because it fits me just right, it can be worn so many ways, and it's recycled! 

Have a safe and fun weekend everyone!

Any specific plans?

- Samjah Iman

The Five Musts

Happy Hump Day!  I wanted to share some motivational/insightful information to carry you through the rest of the week.  Some time ago I read a book by John Assaraf titled The Answer.  This book touched on how to grow a business, achieve financial freedom, and live an extraordinary life by applying the law of attraction to your world.  The law of attraction simple means reprogramming your conscious brain to envision positive things for your life.  The more you envision these positive things, the more your subconscious brain is changed.  As a result, you will automatically work hard towards what you believe you should have, and positive things will come.  

In this book, Assaraf lists five key elements that must be in place in order to achieve major success.  Check them out below.  

• You must find something that stirs your soul.
• You must become excellent at it.
• You must recondition your mind to believe you can have it and achieve it.
• You must understand how to make money at it.
• You must take daily action. 

I wrote these five things down and have carried them with me since reading this book.  I read them over every so often to keep them at the forefront of my brain.  When I took them out to read them last week, I thought sharing them with you guys would be cool.  Take heed and believe!  

- Samjah Iman

A White Affair

I went home for Memorial Day Weekend to see my family and to attend an annual white party given by the Traveling Tigers (a RV club of Monroe, LA) in support of the Sickle Cell Anemia Foundation of Monroe, LA.  My original plans were to sit in my place all weekend, rest my brain and catch up on the TV show Blackish.  However, my friend and mother insisted that I join them at the party.  I said to myself "Why not go? I can rest my brain while I'm driving."  My last minute commitment to this event meant that I had to do some last minute shopping which was right up my alley. 

In a hurry to piece an all white outfit together, I purchased an off white, linen/cotton blazer from Gap and paired it with some white, linen/rayon shorts from H&M.  I threw on some nude Steve Madden ankle pumps (old) and proceeded to the party to let my hair down - and let my hair down I did.  See below. 

Gap Linen Blazer, H&M Linen Shorts, Steve Madden Nude Ankle Pumps

Mommy dearest and big brother.

The band played one of our favorite songs by the Isley Brothers - For the Love of You.  It was only right we showed the band our appreciation for their excellent music taste by two-stepping. 

The effects of the Crown Royal began to kick in at this point. 

The Crown Royal totally took over.  

I had the most fun that I have had in a while at this party with my family and friends.  It's good to let loose every now and then.  Unwinding and enjoying life makes working hard even more purposeful.   

Hope you all enjoyed your Memorial Day Weekend.  Thank you to the soldiers who fought and died for our country.  Have a bomb week everyone and thanks for stopping by.....I'm grateful (and hungover). 

Cheers!

- Samjah Iman

A Man's Shirt in a Woman's World

Here’s a little secret – I love wearing men’s shirts and jeans!  Not all of their shirts and jeans, just some of them.  When I was younger I used to wear my brother’s shirts sometimes, and I would wear my daddy’s jeans quite often.  The fit was more comfortable and the baggy look was popular during those days.  Then I went through a stage where I didn’t want to wear anything but women’s clothing.  Now I’m back in my menswear stage, but I mix and match it with women’s clothing to give it a more feminine feel.

H&M Men's Shirt, cut-off shorts, Aldo Shoes

H&M Men's Shirt, cut-off shorts, Aldo Shoes

I’m wearing a men’s H&M collar shirt and it is currently on sale for $9.99!  Of course the black and white colors attracted me to the shirt, but the pattern of the shirt is what stood out the most. 

H&M Men's Shirt

I paired my H&M button up shirt with some homemade shorts.  I have literally been cutting off every pair of jeans in my closet.  I’m obsessed with cutting, and I’m running out of jeans…someone schedule an intervention for me soon, please!  For my shoes, I am wearing my Aldo off-white pumps (currently sold-out).  I wanted to wear an ankle bracelet (haven’t owned one in years but now I want one again) so I turned one of my thick, chain necklaces into one.  It’s over-the-top and gaudy – just what I was going for.  My purse is an old accessory I picked up from Forever 21 years ago.   

H&M Men's Shirt, cut-off shorts, Aldo Pumps

H&M Men's Shirt, cut-off shorts, Aldo Pumps

This fashion thing is not only limited to clothing that is made for your gender.  If you see a fashion item that wasn’t made for you but you like it, make it work.  

H&M Men's Shirt, cut-off shorts, Aldo Pumps

Have a safe Memorial Day weekend! And while you’re eating barbecue or whatever, tell a friend to check out my blog….it would make me blush! LOL

- Samjah Iman

Beachwear on the Bayou

I’ve been wanting to hit a beach for the last few months so that I can kick back and wear cute swimsuits and short shorts.  Since I haven’t been able to get to the beach, I decided to flex my beach wear on the bayou baaaaaby! 

There are no beautiful, white sand beaches this side of the Mississippi River – only murky waters, swamps, moss and grass (welcome to the dirty south).  Ladies, we don’t need to be at the beach to wear our beach attire, we can jazz it up and wear it wherever.  Check it out below. 

Swimsuit as a bodysuit

Swimsuit as bodysuit and oversize blue jean dress as cover up

Swimsuit as bodysuit and white cut-off shorts

If you end up not taking a beach vacation, your swimwear does not have to suffer!  Use your one-piece swimsuit as a bodysuit or wear your swimsuit cover ups as outerwear.  This is a creative way to make good use of your swimwear instead letting it sit in your closet until you finally get that dreamy beach vacation. 

In these pictures, I am wearing an oversize blue jean shirt dress as outerwear, my American Apparel swimsuit as a bodysuit (I love the cut of their swimsuits and bodysuits), some cut-off shorts that I created from some old jeans, and my Steve Madden comfy sandals (currently on sale).  This outfit is ideal for a night-out with the girls, a social event, or festival.   

Oversize blue jean shirt dress

American Apparel Swimsuit

Steve Madden Sofiia Sandals

There’s no rule that says you can’t wear your beach attire in the city or even your city attire on the beach!  Just be as creative as possible, and the fashion possibilities will be infinite! 

What beach look would you rock in the city? 

- Samjah Iman

Saturday on Magazine Street

I spent Saturday with my friend Jewel and her daughter, my goddaughter, Kai.  They are moving next week, and we wanted to get some quality time in before they left.  Children are so funny and honest to me, and it's cool just to be in their presence.  They are some of the most interesting little creatures.   

Jewel and I are in the process of training Kai on how to take pictures (don't judge us). Above she was looking at the passer-by like "lady, please get out of our pic!"  Since there were too many distractions in that area, I found another area for her to pose in with her mother, and Kai brought it!  Check them out below.     

Isn't this the cutest picture?  Kai was not taking this picture without her toy ponies.  She strategically positioned them in front of her before she struck her pose lol.  Oh and Kai's entire outfit (shoes and all) was purchased from a consignment shop.  Parents, don't sleep on consignment shops for your kids. You can find the most stylish outfits for half the price!  Also, rompers are definitely a summer staple.  Jewel's lace romper is a stylish way to stay cool and beat the heat.   

Above is a more detailed look at my outfit.  I threw on an old unitard (all in one suit) that I've had for years (I'm currently searching for a new one), a flannel shirt from Forever 21 to tie around my waist, and the most comfortable tennis shoes ever!!! These Asics tennis shoes are gel-like, and they conform to your feet.  They are so easy to maneuver, and they have a classic look to them which is why I am really feeling them.  I can't wear them enough!  I got them from an exclusive sneaker boutique in Baton Rouge called Private Stock BR.  If you are looking for some comfortable running shoes, these are it.

Thank you sooooo much for reading my blogs.  I appreciate it more than you know.  Enjoy the rest of your weekend - see you again on here soon!

- Samjah Iman

Bomb Product of the Day!

When I was writing and editing for the fashion section at Everything Girls Love (EGL), I met some very interesting, hardworking young ladies.  We all had similar goals, and we supported each other in reaching those goals.  See some of the ladies below.  

Pictured from left to right:

Talibah Stewart (@alwayzpretti), Marsha Badger (@marshbarscloset), Tysha (@styledtoatea), Ty Hunter (Beyonce's Stylist!! @tytyrone), me, Kindra Mone (@kindramone).

We all eventually left EGL to pursue our own endeavors, and one of the girls (Marsha Badger) became a fashion writer for one of the top, influential fashion blogs on the web – Fashion Bomb Daily.  This popular blog, started by Claire Sulmers, attracts 2.4 million viewers per month and has been recognized by major publications such as Teen Vogue, Ebony Magazine and Black Enterprise!! Crazy huh?! What’s even crazier is that CHOKOLAT CREME’S FREE MIND TEE WAS FEATURED ON THE SITE AS THE BOMB PRODUCT OF THE DAY!!!!  Marsha looked out for Chokolat Creme, and we can’t be more grateful! 

You never know who you are meeting when you encounter different people.  This is a prime example of why not only networking is essential but emitting positive vibes and treating people with courtesy and respect is even more important.  I never knew the ladies I wrote with on a daily basis would turn into some women who would eventually make real power moves.  I admired their hustler mentalities and thought they were some cool, stylish, and fun ladies to work with, and as a result I formed a relationship with them.  I’m so glad I met them and cultivated a genuine connection with them – not for the resources but because we are like-minded women who love helping other women achieve their goals.  This is a rare thing nowadays, and I’m blessed to say that I have met such women.

April (Chokolat Creme’s other half) and I are crazy happy and proud about this moment.  When I called her after I got the notification, she hung up in my face lol!  That is what we do when the other one calls with some crazy news (we are weird but it works for us lol). 

Now it’s time to turn up the hustle and dig deeper. 

But before we jump back on the grind, can we take 2 hours to bask in this wonderful moment, please (insert tired face here)????

Click here to see our feature on Fashion Bomb Daily. 

Click here to purchase your Free Mind Tee.  Hurry, they are going fast thanks to our feature!

Keep the Grind Alive!

- Samjah Iman

Any Given Sunday

Brunch and fashion?  Don't mind if I do!

I had a peaceful Sunday that included church, fashion and food.  I live for the weekends, and I try to spend my time doing what I love because it relaxes my mind and prepares me for tackling another week. 

Keep scrolling to see more of my weekend activities. 

P.S. - My dress was only $17.50!  Check it out below.

Outfit Details:  Boohoo Hanky Hem T-shirt Dress // Steve Madden Booties (old)

May your week be filled with lots of love, good food, and laughter!!

- Samjah Iman

Curves R My Movement Fashion Show

 I was invited to a fashion show Saturday evening that literally opened my eyes.  The Curves R My Movement Fashion Show proved that women with curves are on the rise, and they can style and get in formation just like any other lady.  Go girls!

Under the direction of Ashley Cherry (Instagram - @curvesrmymovement_ceo), Curves R My Movement was created to celebrate and empower our thick sisters.  The fashion show was very entertaining because it demonstrated just how versatile fashion is.  There are a lot of fashion myths that apply to curvy girls such as they should only wear the color black because it slims, or long skirts and dresses look best on their figure, but this fashion show proved that those myths are no longer valid. 

Pictured above was the host of the event - celebrity plus size model Rosie Mercado.  I love her dress!

My girl Georgette ripped the runway during this show, and she killed it!!!

These ladies showed up and showed out!  Confidence is everything!  It's not about what you are wearing, it's about how you are wearing it.  What is on the inside translates to the outside. 

The designers that were featured in the pictures above are Rain Wear (cocotwist.com), Fashionista Boutique (www.fashion-i-sta.com), F.A.T - Fashionable and Thick (www.fashionableandthick.net), and Dzire Boutique (www.dzireboutique.com). 

Above is what I wore to the event.  I decided to go with my favorite black jeans, a dress that I wore as a blouse and my Steve Madden COMFORTABLE heels.  I could have gone another 10 hours in those shoes!

Where are all my thick-fine women at???!!  It's your time to shine!

- Samjah Iman

One Outfit, Two Ways - The ASOS Minimal Jumpsuit

I finally purchased the Minimal Jumpsuit from ASOS (which was on my wishlist), and boy am I glad I did!  This loose-fitting jumpsuit is so comfortable and versatile.  It will be getting plenty of wear throughout the year. 

After taking these pictures, I met my girls for lunch.  We had a lot of catching up to do and me and this jumpsuit were both ready for some good conversation.   

I'm definitely digging the pockets on the jumpsuit.  Having pockets on clothes gives me comfort for some reason.  During those awkward moments when I'm talking to people or just walking and I don't know what to do with my hands, I place them in my pockets and feel safe lol. 

My Adidas really match up well with this jumpsuit.  It gives my effortless look some edge.  This is a perfect look for daytime events, festivals or even concerts.  However, if you have a dinner date, art show, or evening soiree to attend, simply throw the Adidas to the side and jazz it up with some heels.  It transforms very well. 

To take my jumpsuit to an evening look, I added some eye-catching heels, a small purse and a belt. 

This jumpsuit is a great purchase.  Clothing pieces that can be worn many different ways allow you to save money and express your creativity.  I can't wait to wear this jumpsuit with some flat sandals, a blazer or my oversized blue jean jacket.   

Before I sign off, guess what?  I found the bike that was on my wishlist as well!  The best part about finding the bike was that I got it for an excellent price!  I was on a road trip, and while driving and singing along to some Jill Scott, I spotted an antique shop on the side of the highway.  I did a double take when I saw her (my bike) sitting out in the front saying, "Sam!! Let me roll girl!"  I politely did a u-turn and went to go get my bike.  When I made it back to the antique shop I was elated to discover that the bike was only $60!  I purchased that bike quick and went on about my business.  Ladies and gents, meet Priscilla. 

I gave her the name Priscilla because that is the first name that came to my mind upon meeting her (I have no idea how my mind works).   Now Prissy (her nickname) needs some work done, but nonetheless she is still a doll.  My father is currently fixing her up to my liking.  Once she is done, I will show her off to you guys. 

Enjoy the rest of your week sweethearts and remember to count it all joy!

Outfit Details: ASOS Minimal Jumpsuit // Adidas Tennis Shoes // Heels (old www.shopakira.com) // Purse (old) // H&M Belt (old)

- Samjah Iman

I Get it from My MAMA!

Some of my fondest memories as a little girl include watching my mother get dressed up for events.  While she prepared for her outings, I would sit at the edge of her bed and study her.  I asked several questions about what she was wearing and where she was going.  Her outfits were always classy with a touch of sass, and her jewelry consisted of gold, diamonds and pearls every now and then.  She kept her makeup to a minimum, she always had a small, dainty purse to accommodate each look, and she completed every outfit with a spray of White Diamonds or Chanel No. 5 perfume. 

On occasions my mother would get me all dressed up as well, comb my hair into an elegant bun or French roll, give me a little dainty purse of my own to carry, and take me to the Ebony Fashion Fair runway shows.  This was my first exposure to high-end fashion.  I was in awe.  Attending these shows and observing my mother's love for fashion ignited a style beast inside of me.  I knew at a young age that fashion would definitely be my outlet through which I express my art.

 As a result of my style exposure, I started feeding my fashion addiction very early.  Emulating my mother’s style, I would dress up in her slips, nightgowns, socks and heels.  I chose her slips and nightgowns because they seemed easier to tailor to my little body (great fashion sense for a style amateur huh?!).  I would add a belt around my waist to make sure the outfit would fit as perfect as possible, and then I would politely pose for pictures.

Style plays a huge role in my family.  My mother and her sisters are the first people I have ever seen turn up the collars on their shirts and jackets.  I took this style technique from them and incorporated it in my looks that include jackets with collars.  Check my mother, aunts, and grandmother out below.  My mother is in the black and white, my grandmother is in the front with her head turned to the side, and my aunts are surrounding them.  Excuse my brother and his photo bombing antics.  

I love that my mother understands the need to have several pairs of shoes and a few different closets full of clothes.  This, among many reasons, is why we connect!  When I call her about an outfit or a pair shoes I want that I know I don't need, her usual response is "Buy it Sam."  Man...isn't my mother the bomb?!! 

Check out some more stylish pictures of my mother below to see why I get it from my Mama!

Above my mother is pictured with one of her favorite poets, Dr. Maya Angelou.  In this picture she is wrapped in her fur coat looking very "Manhattan 5th Avenue."  I need that coat Ma!

Here she is pictured with my grandmother in her silk suit. My mother loves silk, rayon and leather.  Her style advice to me is to always purchase quality fabrics that will last.

Above is my favorite cocktail dress that my mother owns.  Reasons being, it's my go-to color combination (black and white) and it's timeless.  She has had it for double digit years, and it steals the show ‘til this day.  

 I love my mother dearly for encouraging me to express myself through style.  She taught me that carrying yourself in a positive way makes you even more stylish.  I thank God I have great women in my life like my mother, aunts, and grandmother influencing not only my style but my character as well.  I will definitely take a lot of things they taught me on my journey in life, and I will keep our style legacy alive!

 I love you Big P!  Happy Mother's Day!!

Happy Mother's Day to all of the mothers out there! 

 What type of style/fashion advice did your mother give you? 

- Samjah Iman

The Maturation of Samjah Iman

We made it through another week! 

Last week got kind of challenging for me, but I gave it my all.  I didn't complain though because it's all about becoming the fearless woman I am meant to be. I welcome challenges because they equip me for this journey I am on.  Below are three things I took from last week that I will share in hopes to inspire you as well:

1. Let it go - This is a lesson I am constantly learning everyday of my life.  I once read a quote that said "The world is won by those who let it go." - Lao Tzu.  Now to me this quote doesn't mean do nothing.  It simply means give it your best then give it to God.  This upcoming week I will give each task and situation my all, then set it free for the universe to work its magic.  

2.  Embrace growth - Growth can be uncomfortable at times but necessary.  The only constant thing in the world is change, and if you don't change you don't grow.  When you grow as a person, your art (or passion) is broaden.  You see the world differently.  We must read more, explore new things, socialize and hear new perspectives.  It helps us to sprout mentally.  I am making a vow to embrace change and growth which will inevitably expand my art. 

3.  Stay true - Make sure you can look yourself in the mirror every day and be comfortable with the person you are staring at.  I will embody authenticity in everything I do, think and feel.  This strengthens my sense of self and clears my conscious.  "The key to failure is trying to please everybody." - Bill Cosby.  Please yourself!  This makes you happy and everyone around you happy as well. 

Have an awesome week everyone!  Enjoy the journey, let it go, embrace growth, stay true and keep the faith! 

- Samjah Iman

A Skirt with a Side of Timbs...

“Wipe the sweat off my dome, spit the phlegm on the streets / Suede Timbs on my feet makes my cipher complete.” - NAS

Timberland Boots (Timbs) represent a cool but rugged look.  They are a classic, multi-purpose boot that will remain popular for years to come.  Whenever I see a man or lady rocking a pair of Timbs, my heart tells me that they may know a little something about styling.

My Timbs were a great investment.  They are timeless, comfortable, fly and can be worn with many different looks like a skirt.      

This simple look I put together was very cost-efficient (minus the Timbs).  The shirt was $9.99, and the skirt was on sale for $4.99 (regular price was $49.99)!  I love finding quality items for low prices.  It makes shopping that much more enjoyable. 

With this outfit, I mixed-and-matched stripes.  I took a black and white striped shirt and paired it with a navy blue and light blue striped skirt.  I threw my red purse in the mix to add a little color.

This outfit is a perfect pick for a concert or event that you want to be cute but comfortable at.  It will allow you to concentrate on having a good time instead of concentrating on your aching feet in those high heels! 

I hope this post gave you some outfit inspiration for future occasions.  Have a peaceful week, and remember to remain authentic and grateful! 

 P.S. – Fly high, Prince…your beautiful art will forever live in our minds and souls!

Outfit Details: Urban Outfitters Midi Skirt (In stores only)  // Jersey Top // Timberland Boots // Ray Ban Sunglasses // Purse (old)

- Samjah Iman

In Love with the Cocoa

I got a chance to check out the movie Barbershop: The Next Cut this past Saturday; I was pleased.  I enjoyed the cast, the message behind the film, and I especially enjoyed the barbershop talk.  The discussions in this movie were real, unfiltered and essential.  They were about men, women, politics, race, social media and a whole other slew of things that peaked my interest.  However, there was one particular discussion, touched on briefly by the cast, that stuck out to me - black women, their weave shenanigans and black men's love for women who resemble Kim Kardashian.  One sister in the shop raised a good point and made a few comments pointing out that some of our men don't appreciate our natural attributes.  The discussion then turned to actress/model Lupita Nyong'o, her hair and how most men wouldn't want their woman rocking that hair style because it doesn't represent the typical standard of beauty in America.  Some of the men disagreed and implied that they could appreciate a woman with Lupita's characteristics.  This made me think.  Do some of our men suddenly have a strong affinity for the cocoa and our kinky locks? Are they finally waking up?  This discussion reminded me of an article I wrote a couple years ago.  See an excerpt below.

According to social media, quite a few men are in love with Lupita's looks.  Coming from SOME men, I find this hard to believe because we live in a society where her attributes (dark skin and a short natural hair-do) are not the criteria for beauty.  Most of our men are suckers for long hair and light skin.  I'm not blaming the brothers for their inflexible interests because we all have been socially constructed by music, television, social media, and some magazines to believe that lighter skin and long hair equate beauty.  As kids, the media shaped our views of beauty and had us believing that long flowing hair and slightly tanned skin were the things to like.  If you didn't have a parent reinforcing and praising other images of beauty like afros and coffee-colored skin, you were not conditioned to appreciate the type of beauty Lupita brings to the table.  

There is an abundance of Lupitas working in Wal-Mart, pumping gas at the gas station, in the hood, riding the bus, etc.  Therefore, if men are really into Lupita and her features like they claim to be, then they would date someone who resembles her.       

I wrote the piece above because at the time I felt some of our brothers weren't keeping it real.  I knew of a few men personally who wouldn't look twice at most of the girls who possessed dark skin and kinky hair but claimed that they were Lupita's #1 fan probably because she was trending at the time.  Fast forward two years later, and a lot of people seem to be amazed by these African characteristics.  The world seems to be catching on and celebrating different hair types and all the shades of our people.  Is the appreciation for our culture real or are some people still on the pro-black bandwagon because it's popular now?  I truly believe that some of this new found love is due to having more brown skin women portrayed in the mainstream media.  These days commercials feature black women with natural hair and dark skin tones.  Seeing more images of ourselves constantly can influence our views in a positive way, and it gives other brown skin women the courage and confidence to celebrate their beauty proudly.

Nowadays, there are several blogs dedicated to just black women and natural hair and paraphernalia being created that celebrates our beauty and uniqueness.  Hell, now the hair stores even sell kinky weave and faux dreadlocks!  I am truly amazed by it all. 

Photo Credit: Instagram - @djeclazz. Retrieved April 17, 2017

Photo Credit: Instagram - @brandanjzachery. Retrieved April 17,2017

Ya'll know I need that swimsuit above, right?!! It comes from Bareswim.com, and it's available for pre-order now!

Photo Credit. Zazzle.com. Retrieved April 17, 2017. http://www.zazzle.com/natural+hair+coffee+mugs

I am loving the era that we are are currently in, and I pray it continues.  I am so glad that our little girls have women in the media like Lupita Nyong'o and others to make them feel beautiful and give them hope.  Black people come in all shades of brown, and we have many different hair textures; this is what makes us beautiful.  We are diversity at its finest!      

P.S. - Shout out to the women who don't need the media's permission to love themselves, and shout out to the men who have been down with the sisters before it was cool! 

Photo Credit: Etsy.com. Retrieved April 17, 2016. https://www.etsy.com/market/black_power

Thoughts?

- One chocolate girl - Samjah Iman

Colorful Evolution

There was a time in my life when I was hiding.  I didn't want my light to shine too bright or to overpower another person's light for fear of being judged.  When I was younger, I was unaware of the realities of this world.  I was truly liberated.  I would do me no matter what anyone would say.  As I got older, I got a dose of how cruel the world could be and how some girls/women project their own insecurities on other girls/women which in turn breeds jealousy.  I slowly began to retreat into a secluded space that was comfortable for me.  To avoid any scrutiny or hate, I tried my best to stay behind the scenes for a while but it eventually became difficult to do because my light just wouldn't stay hidden.     

"If you haven't got it, you can't show it.  If you have got it, you can't hide it."  - Zora Neale Hurston

Since then I have awakened and evolved colorfully.  I am actualizing my potential.  I no longer try to suppress what God gave me, and I don't fear the consequences of becoming who I am truly meant to be.  I realized that it's about being the best Sam possible and inspiring others to be their best.

So there you have it ladies and gents - my colorful evolution.  I plan to continue evolving and rocking this life I have, and if that offends anyone then CHECK YO SELF!

  "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.  Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.  It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.  We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?  Actually, who are you NOT to be?  You are a child of God.  Your playing small does not serve the world.  There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.  We are all meant to shine, as children do.  We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.  It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone.  And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.  As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."  - Marianne Williamson  

Why are you holding back?  Evolve!

In this post I'm wearing a ASOS crop top, a vintage Levis men's jacket that I found on etsy.com, the New Balance 410 sneakers (currently working on my collection) and some BDG Urban Outfitter jeans.  I'm sort of a minimalist when it comes to fashion.  I truly believe that less is more in most style situations.  The woman definitely makes the clothes, the clothes do not make the woman.  When in doubt, keep it simple. 

- Samjah Iman  

French Quarter Festival 2016

Allow yourself to daydream for a minute and picture this scene - it's slightly windy, around 79 degrees, cumulus clouds fill the sky, brass bands are blowing, people are smiling, children are dancing, colorful clothes decorate the streets, fried fish and shrimp aromas float in the air and a thick, joyous spirit hovers around the atmosphere and covers you like a blanket.  Ladies and Gents, welcome to the French Quarter Festival in New Orleans, LA.

The French Quarter Festival (FQF) always gives me the art I fiend for, and this year was no different.  I got to witness an array of fashion, taste my favorite foods, and observe different vibes.  Check out the FQF through my curious eyes and camera lens.

Mardi Gras Indian.

That's right sweetie, stay camera ready!

The dashiki was in full effect at the fest.  I saw this look a few times on both men and women. 

The hat crew.

This dish is called "Crawfish Louise."  It consists of crawfish (my fav!), green onions, breadcrumbs, tomatoes, mushrooms, and cheese.  Delicious! 

Squad love.

Chicken and sausage jambalaya.

Crawfish pies!

Plum Street snoball with a shot of rum!

Rompers are popular this summer.  They go with festivals like red beans go with rice (yes, I'm currently hungry, hence the food analogy). 

Shorts are always a festival staple.  They keep you cool and cute at the same time.  

I wore a tee created by Chokolat Creme (available here), some BDG cut-off shorts (Urban Outfitters) and Steve Madden combat boots.  I try to be as comfortable as possible when I'm at these festivals. An uncomfortable outfit literally ruins an event for me.  I'm an advocate for functional fashion!   

The FQF 2016 did not disappoint me at all.  There is no other festival that has a similar vibe.

Until next time - Laissez les bons temps rouler!!! (French for let the good times roll.)

What's your favorite festival to attend?

- Samjah Iman

Partying with a Purpose

This past weekend was a busy one, but purposeful.  I got the chance to party with my friends and family for a worthy cause - to bring awareness to Sickle Cell Anemia.  

The Northeast Louisiana Sickle Cell Anemia Foundation (NELA SCAF) held its annual "Evening with Sickle Cell" event on Friday, May 8, 2016 in Monroe, LA.  The reason behind this event was to encourage individuals to educate themselves about this disease that plagues our community and to know their sickle cell status.  My father, brother, nephews, a friend and I all have the sickle cell trait, so I was glad to be able to participate in this meaningful event and give back.       

Check out my coverage of the event below. 

Pictured above is my mother conversing with her colleagues from the University of Louisiana at Monroe.

My brother Brad and his wife Tonya.

My friends and former classmates. 

Above is what I wore to the event.  Black and white are my go-to colors for most events because these colors stand out and look sophisticated.  I had on an Urban Outfitters top and skirt, and my shoes (pictured below) were from Aldo. 

The event was entertaining and lively. I thoroughly enjoyed myself!

For more information on this disease, visit www.sicklecelldisease.org.

Do you KNOW YOUR SICKLE CELL STATUS?! 

- Samjah Iman

April Joy

I want to take a minute and shout out my friend, my sister in style and partner in business - April Joy.

Her style is crazy dope don't you agree?!

April and I met in the late 80s and became close friends through our love for fashion and bike riding.  On any day you could catch us cruising the neighborhood on our purple and pink bikes in matching shirts, cut-off shorts, and Keds tennis.  Whether it was a dance contest against some sassy little girls on another block or a new TLC song to learn, we were down for the cause.  April and I were a team then and still are a team now.  

When we were younger, we made a pact that we wouldn't cop any pleas with anyone or for anything (we stole the phrase from a rap song probably).  We often refer to this on the low as CNP (copping no pleas).  To us this meant that we were going to go hard at any cost and not give in or up. 

I hope we continue to reach new heights together and continue to be down for the cause.  Keep your head up Coop and keep styling on 'em....and remember CNP for life!!!!

- Samjah Iman